In his book "No More Mr. Nice Guy," Dr. Robert Glover argues that nice guys often struggle to find love because they are not being authentic. He defines a nice guy as someone who is "passive, agreeable, and avoids conflict at all costs." Nice guys are often afraid of being rejected or abandoned, so they try to please everyone around them. This can lead to them being taken advantage of, and it can also make it difficult for them to form genuine connections with others.

Glover argues that nice guys need to learn to be assertive and set boundaries. They also need to learn to express their needs and wants, even if it means risking rejection. By doing this, they can start to build healthy relationships with others.

Here are some tips for nice guys who want to improve their chances of finding love:

• Be assertive. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and your beliefs.

• Set boundaries. Learn to say no to people and requests that you don't want to do.

• Express your needs and wants. Let people know what you want and need, both in relationships and in life.

• Be authentic. Be yourself, flaws and all. People will appreciate you for who you are.

It's important to remember that being nice is not a bad thing. However, being a nice guy is not the same as being authentic. Nice guys often try to be someone they're not, which can lead to them being unhappy and unfulfilled. If you're a nice guy who wants to find love, it's important to learn to be authentic and to express your needs and wants. By doing this, you can start to build healthy relationships with others and find the love you deserve.

Here are some additional resources for nice guys who want to improve their chances of finding love:

• Dr. Robert Glover's book "No More Mr. Nice Guy"